Summary: Subtitled, “From Preschool to High School – How Parents and Teachers Can Help Break the Cycle of Violence,” this book offers a psychological profile of the three characters in a tragedy. Coloroso explores the emotions and rationalizations experienced by the bully, the bullied, and the bystander. She also discusses the three main types of bullying—physical, verbal and relational—that occur “in person,” and she explains the ways in which cyberbullying is an even more invasive and poisonous form of bullying. Throughout the book, Coloroso emphasizes the need for parents and educators to take bullying seriously, so as to change the attitude that it is “part of growing up.” Numerous cases of school violence from around the world are cited as examples.
Notes: Coloroso has created an invaluable resource for individual parents/families and educators. The emphasis on reconciliation, healing, and on-going dialogue are sound. While her suggestions regarding reconciliatory justice are idealistic, schools are in need of strong leadership on the issue bullying and school violence. This book offers excellent guidance for navigating treacherous waters and for keeping kids safe and thriving at school.